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Female bullies exist by Clelius Female bullies exist by Clelius
True story.

I wonder why female bullying is undervalued.
Female bullies can be just as mean as male bullies.

Example:
when I was in elementary and middle school (and still now in HS) the 90% of people that teased me and were mean to me were girls.
Most boys on the other hand were nice to me and tried to help me most of the times.
Surprisesurprise.
Other girls laughed of me, did things just to annoy me, and told me that "I was an inferior being" and that "it would have been better off if I were dead" (their words).
And they were always able to get away with it.
When I was in 5th grade I was told it would have been better off if I were dead by a girl, just in front of the teacher.
And the teacher did nothing because "she was a girl".

Because of those bitches I developed sort of a lack of trust towards my own gender, and I have severe issues interacting with other girls, while with guys it's easier.

And that's what happened to someone who doesn't care about insults, what other people think of her, and teasing. In fact, probably the only thing that really hurt me was that "it would have been better off if you were dead".

But really, I try to avoid getting teased and laughed at if I can, therefore I have problems interacting with other girls, even if they are my friends.
Because I think they are going to laugh at me and tease me when I'll turn my back, and worse of all, won't have the guts to tell things to my face.
I'd like people to tell things to my face, at least.

TL; DR: girls can be bullies too and can be just as mean as male bullies.
It's not true that "boys are always worse"; my experience, and the exprience of many other people I know, it's a proof.

Read these: teenadvice.about.com/od/violen… www.ncpc.org/topics/bullying/g…

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Greystar2000 Featured By Owner Jul 21, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
This is why I mostly hang with guyish females or guys. It just seems that the male gender (not the male... I don't like saying one word but "group") is more laid back.mim not sure why, but it just seems so.
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xXLadyRainbowXx Featured By Owner Jul 17, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
i agree. alot of the girls i met say things like im " not TRULY a girl " and i " cant be a gamer and a girl at the same time ".....
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LadySwirlz Featured By Owner Jul 17, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Girls are jealous of other girls. When I play a multiplayer game, the boy usually say 'Oh, it's just a lame girl' then improve them wrong, and so they accept me into their group. Then comes along another girl, and she tries to kill me. All the damn time... I believe that she's jealous that I'm better than her. Once she said, "You're name is stupid." 
Damn her! I don't care about those shit words coming out of your mouth.
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peacefulinvasion Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
I had two terrible bullies one boy one girl. I will say i hated both equally. I've never forgiven either. 
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Clelius Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2014
I honestly don't get the whole forgiveness thing. They tell you you're a bad person for not forgiving. I think that's not true. Why would I forgive people who hurt me?
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peacefulinvasion Featured By Owner Jul 16, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Yah im never gonna forgive them for the shit they pulled
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InfinityYellowA Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2014
I agree with this too. This is why I like boys better. Other than my TRUE friends, every other girl I have met has to be some sort of bitch or have some drama in their lives( other than my mom though)
I feel really bad you has to go through that because I literally went through the same thing.

I hope you at least feel a little better now:( (Sad) 
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Clelius Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2014
I feel a lot better, a lot of things in my life got better as I grew up, thank you <3
I hope you feel better, too
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CaramelSuprise Featured By Owner Jul 7, 2014  New member
True, Reminds me of when i was in the 5th Grade.
Ever since it was leaked that i was Bisexual almost all of the girls refused to sleep in the same cabin as me in our school camping trip. For fear that i would molest them in thier sleep -.- and how they would call me names and tell on me after i object thier fucking statements. But i kinda got used to my bullies being female, and ONE bitch in particular SLAPPED me for standing up against her homophobic and biophobic statement. And she screamed in my ear and slapped me a few times earlier that year too...Ugh.

I will forever treasure this!
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AnimatedAbominations Featured By Owner Jul 7, 2014  New member
I state the argument that females are WORSE bullies then men. I had 4 male bullies. All they did was call me names. Heck, 2 of them are my friends now. I had 3 girl bullies, 2 of them were a duo. What did the duo do? THEY FORMED AN ARMY TO TRY TO KILL ME. DEAD SERIOUS! What about the 3rd one? SHE MADE MY LIFE A LIVING HELL! I ALMOST COMMITED SUICIDE BECAUSE OF THAT B!***.
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