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I won't by Clelius I won't by Clelius
Before you say anything:
I'm not one of those "DIFFERENT AND PROUD!1!!11!!" kids, because taking pride in something like that is pointless and stupid to me
I'm not one of those "BUT AI WANT TO BE SPESHUL!!!!1!11!!" kids, because in my opinion being different doesn't equal being special, and even if people do anything to stand out of the crowd and get attention, they mean nothing to me.

I'm just saying that I won't change myself, who I am, and my personality because:
I can't fake being someone else
Even if I could, I wouldn't do it, because I have a friend that fakes to be someone else, and she is put under a huge amount of pressure, causing her way too much stess and depression. Same for other people I've seen that faked to be somebody else. I couldn't bear all that stress.
Even if I did change myself to please some people, sooner or later I would meet someone else that wouldn't like my "fake self" and my "true self", and would prefear me if I were different, so I should again fake to be somebody else, and again, too much stess and depression to bear.
Note that I'm not just talking about people that fake to be somebody else to conform, but even about those that are doing it just to be considered different, special, funnier or cooler by people.
I get along well with people that don't want me to change myself, and that's enough.
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:iconmoosiful:
Moosiful Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2017  Student General Artist
I don't understand. Some people want you to change yourself, then they don't want you to be someone you're not. What the fuck kind of shit is that?
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Sayuri-Lapis Featured By Owner Dec 30, 2016  Student General Artist
My parents would disagree if they saw this
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Darkisethas Featured By Owner Edited Jul 4, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Everyone's a bit different and special but deep down also just like everyone else; no-one should change themselves just to please others because it's boring, cowardly (no offense) and denial of a person expressing their individuality. Ultimately we are what we choose to become!
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Mephistopheliann Featured By Owner Aug 24, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
THIS. Wish everyone was like this, and wouldn't stop expecting so much from others who are different than how they like. :\
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:iconrandamu-chan:
Randamu-Chan Featured By Owner Aug 21, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you!
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:iconstarfiregrace1998:
StarfireGrace1998 Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
I love being who I am and people don't like that and want me to change then they're not worth my time.
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:icondarkisethas:
Darkisethas Featured By Owner Jul 4, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
^ Wise words!
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StarfireGrace1998 Featured By Owner Jul 4, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
^^
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:iconrandamu-chan:
Randamu-Chan Featured By Owner Aug 10, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm glad that I'm not the only one :)
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:iconstarfiregrace1998:
StarfireGrace1998 Featured By Owner Aug 10, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
no you're not the only one!! The world would be such boring place without us ppl who aren't afraid to be ourselves!! ^^
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Randamu-Chan Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
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StarfireGrace1998 Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
XD
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:iconrandamu-chan:
Randamu-Chan Featured By Owner Aug 17, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
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tinywolf4567 Featured By Owner Jul 23, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Everyone that I dislike wants me to change, usually asking,"Why can't you be normal?" or "Why are you so weird?" or, sometimes, "Why do you/Why are you so/Why do you like _________?" 
And I'm tired of that crap.
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MitziiztiM Featured By Owner Edited Jun 27, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
My fifth class teacher wanted me to cough "stop being strange" and my family wanted be to be social and force a smile and crap. I can't do that, that's just not the person I am or ever going to be. Forget it. And I'd never try to change myself just to fit in with a group of retards. -.-
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:iconthetruemadhatter:
TheTrueMadHatter Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2015  Student General Artist
 //Everyone will, well at least for a relationship, and no one will notice it most of the time.
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:iconlupko1994:
lupko1994 Featured By Owner Edited May 6, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
When I was younger, I didn't have a lot of friends because I was different. Then an idea came to my mind: "Hey, if I change and act how people want, then everyone will like me!" What a stupid idea. Acting like someone else is one of the worst things I ever had to do in my life. So that's why, never be ashamed of who you are and never do things to please others. (Btw. great stamp, I'm definitely using it! :clap:)
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:iconcommander-dominic:
Commander-Dominic Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2015
Agreed.
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:icontoastybrain:
ToastyBrain Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I had to deal with this for a couple of years. A girl I used to hang out with tried to change me (she's very girly, I'm the opposite, the only feminine thing about me is the boobs and baby cannon I got.) It got to the point where she degraded me, and mocked everything about me harshly, and all that did was break down and nearly shatter my self worth. Other people don't have this problem with me, they all love me.

I nearly changed to impress someone who never considered me a friend, and just did it as an act, but now I'm back to my usual self, and slowly building up my self worth and self-esteem again.
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BokkaTHfoxrabbit Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2015
Same here.
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TohruRedButterfly Featured By Owner Sep 18, 2014
yes my parents think i should change because im so negative and they wouldbe a bit happy like what matters here is my emotions im young literally like
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Cuddles122 Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Using
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:iconclelius:
Clelius Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2014
Sure :3
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Cuddles122 Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
:3
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s-p-r-i-n-k-l-e-z Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2014  Student General Artist
People expect me to be a total tomboy beacause of my icons, and my overall public dA behaviour. Well guess what? I'm not. And I ain't gonna be.
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:iconclelius:
Clelius Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2014
lol judging a person online only by their icon without knowing details about them is kinda stupid :/
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:icontheredthunder360:
TheRedThunder360 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2014  Professional Traditional Artist
Yes thank you!!!!
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:iconsilent--hill:
Silent--Hill Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Amen to this good sir.
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PrinceDumuzi Featured By Owner Jul 7, 2014
Exactly, I can't change my species, people need to except that. I ain't gonna change shit about myself for anyone.
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aerogram Featured By Owner Jun 30, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Could I use this stamp?
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:iconclelius:
Clelius Featured By Owner Jun 30, 2014
Sure :3
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Yoshiondiviantart Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I won't either.
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:iconnyxtheflyingkatfish:
NyxTheFlyingKatFish Featured By Owner May 20, 2014  Student General Artist
i wish that was true to me..
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:iconinekoninja:
iNekoninja Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2013
I know right ! I think I'm liked not very much because I listen to music like this : www.youtube.com/watch?v=DeEVpB… , and I think "ok.". I'm not changing any time soon.
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kurohalca Featured By Owner Aug 8, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Been there, done that. Tried to like mainstream music and stuff to become popular, but ended up hating the "popular crowd" because they spend all their free time drinking and doing weed... not a good look, so I ditched them for good.
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RedMoonRogue Featured By Owner Feb 12, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
If anyone dislikes you enough that you have to change yourself to be around them, they're not worth your time.
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:iconangeljasiel:
AngelJasiel Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
this is true:thumbsup:
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:iconlalala978:
lalala978 Featured By Owner Feb 9, 2013
I know. Like people are always saying to me "You really should stop stabbing people, the cops are getting pissed!"
And I'm just like... they should be more accepting of ME, not changing me.
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FlammableRainbowz Featured By Owner Feb 9, 2013  Hobbyist
I'd rather be disrespected for who I am than be respected for who I am not.
Nice stamp ♥
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mhm98 Featured By Owner Feb 9, 2013
My father once asked why i have to think the way i do and why i just could'nt be more like the norm, because "it would make it easier for me". I love my papi, and i know he just wants help his little boy, but i told him that that was the most absurd thing i've ever heard in my entire life; said that it would be over our father-son relationship should he ever pick up that dialog again.

This is one good stamp.
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Clelius Featured By Owner Feb 9, 2013
I see.
Every parent who has a child who is bit "different" would want their child to have an easier life, but really, pretending to be someone else can put you under pressure and that can lead to depression, that makes things worse.
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mhm98 Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2013
Yeah..
Though, it's not like i have it hard. I dont think so, at least. Im pretty sure im easier off the hook than most of the people i hang out with.
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Clelius Featured By Owner Feb 15, 2013
I agree.
My friend, for example, is always very worried and often thinks she's stupid or useless, even if she's not.
Even though I am supposed to be in a worse situation that she is, I don't think my life is so "fucked up". I am fairly content with my life, I don't really care of the opinion that others have of me, and I don't suffer from depression. Sometimes I feel sad, but heh, nothing as severe as depression. And however, I rarely feel sad. I can't complain about my life.
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mhm98 Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2013
Heh, i have a lot of friends like that (not talking about the peepz i hangout with, they're badass)
Of course i'd be lying if i said i werent just a bit scared of the future, but i cant really see myself in position to feel bad. Life is gooood, y'all.
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:iconclelius:
Clelius Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2013
Everyone's a bit scared of the future. I also am a little bit.
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:iconmhm98:
mhm98 Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2013
'Tis scary as FUCK to wonder what is to become of one self... yeah, and everything else...
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:iconengelsblau:
Engelsblau Featured By Owner Feb 9, 2013
If you are trying to please everyone, then you will be always a prisoner.

It's a quote that this stamp reminds me of. :thumbsup:
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